Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Weddings in the Countryside

Luu Wedding

I have attended many weddings in the countryside near Hanoi where all of my former colleagues live. Most of the weddings are prepared with the help of the their neighbors, who come to cook and serve the food. Some families hire the services of the local restaurant to cook for them but this is not really common due to their incomes.

Trau cau Phan wedding

When you enter the house, you'll see a lots of candy, betel-nut, even cigarettes on the table, for the visitors enjoy. From what I've seen, people in these places don't really dress up for this special occasion, not because they don't have respect but because life in the countryside is more simple. Young people may dress up in new clothes, like jeans or a t-shirt or just normal working clothes if they come straight from work. Lots of girls dress in a very impressive but weird dresses which are really interesting to look at. I don't mean that in a bad way but they don't have good taste in fashion: they just join whatever they've got together and they love colorful clothes, but they are happy with it and that's great.

Food

Chicken, beef, goat, pork, veal and dog are the most popular meats that are served in the wedding but in some places they also add their local specialty such as cat... I ate cat once at my friend's wedding and I didn't know it was cat until I left the party. Cat meat is really tender and tasty and it looks like beef as well.

Bowls

Some families hire a band to sing in the party, which is fun even though the music is a bit old-fashioned. But in the countryside that's acceptable and good. They always turn music really loud and the singer has to scream to get over the music. I like that!

Luu Wedding Grand mothers

The table settings are very simple with long low tables and plactic chairs along each side. If you are a foreigner then you may not think this is a wedding or a party but that's the way it is and in some places, people just sit on a big mat on the floor and eat. Food is served on a normal round tray with all of the dishes on it and each tray prepared for four people. There are not many weddings which serve beer and soft drinks, only rice wine. The wine depends on the region. Some places have very sweet wine and some others very rough wine but all these wines are really strong. You will get drunk easily after a few glasses and for western people it may taste like petrol.

Luu Wedding- Luu- Huyen- Ngoc-Thuan-Phuong

If you get the chance, a Vietnamese wedding in the countryside is worth going to.

8 comments:

omih said...

Great suff. I've been to a few countryside weddings as most of the young people I work with come from out of the city originally.

They're incredible events although I have to admit for someone like me the food can be a bit of a challenge.

Rice wine in mid morning can be a bit testing too.

slurp! said...

it's always a good experience to experience these wonderful events of different countries & cultures.

unfortunately, it can be hard for most traveller to be invited to these unique cultures experiences unless they knows the families personally

thanks for sharing!

junebee said...

As always, much to be learned from this blog.

Godknows said...

Hi omih, slurp!, junebee thanks for your comments. I think if you go pass the a vietnamese wedding, they would invite you to come in and enjoy with them.

JC said...

Oh yes, this reminds me of the wedding I visited up in the north-west before I left - the rounds of rice-wine killed me! I think it was the drunkest I ever was in VN :)) There's large parts of the wedding I don't remember!

JC

Anna said...

Very interesting and informative post.Loved reading about the traditional Vietnamese wedding customs and cultures. Every thing sounded so different and nice with a tinge of simplicity making it much more closer to heart.I really love reading about cross cultural weddings and their cuisines.I myself is intrigued about weddings to a great extent.You can just peep into my wedding blog and lemme know how you like it.Cheers!!

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